How to Approach a Girl - Bars and Nightclubs!
How to Approach a Girl is the question on many guys minds.
I found this great article by Joe Van Velzor on Ezine Articles. It’s a great basic starter guide, which includes things you can do right now, I mean, go out this weekend and try out!
How to Meet Women in a Bar or Nightclub
By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Joe_Van_Velzor]Joe Van Velzor
If you’re like most guys, your biggest challenge is finding a place to meet women. To find a sophisticated woman you have to go where she’ll be. The best place is at a bar.
You believe trying to meet a woman in a bar is hard. You probably hate going to a club to meet women, most have their guard up. You’re nervous because approaching women in bars sucks. You just have to have the balls to approach them. You are about to learn a few easy tips on how to approach and meet women in a club without getting nervous. How to approach women is the most important thing that you need to learn.
1. Relax
What’s good about a bar or club is that you have a relaxed atmosphere. This makes it easy for you to approach and talk with women. You’re not overwhelmed with loud music and a crowd, you can confidently approach women without fear of rejection. You see the girl of your dreams and you want to meet her.
2. Eye contact and introduction
Women are being constantly approached by guys who use cheesy pick up lines. First get her to make eye contact. And approach her on the third time she makes eye contact with you. If she is by herself pretend to know her, and say “Hey, how are you.” If she’s with a group of her girlfriends, take a different approach. Remember, it’s hard to get girls in a group to separate.
3. Approaching girls in a group
At this point most guys are setting themselves up for defeat. You approach your woman and ask if she wants to dance. If she says no, you continue to ask her friends to dance, they say no, and you leave empty handed. Instead do this. With a smile on your face, walk over and say “Would any of you like to dance?” Chances are that one will dance with you. You now have an opportunity to dance with the other girls in the group too. Pursue the one you that you hit it off with for a romantic encounter.
If you want to find a sophisticated woman you need to go where she’ll be. You’ll have the best opportunity in a bar to meet a woman. Once you learn how to approach them, you’ll find a lot of women who just want to dance and have a good time.
Going out to meet women is certainly a good motivating factor in building up your self-esteem and confidence. Now put this into practice and you can see results.
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