Dating Ladies

I strongly believe that a perfectionist mentality should be maintained and the powerful ability to attract and seduce the most beautiful women in the world should be further developed throughout your life. 

Although I have recently diversified into lifestyle and coaching, my core art is the art of seduction, so I will begin from the beginning.

I first discovered the seduction community 3 years ago. I discovered I had a  natural ability to attract women, and it soon became apparent that I was different, I had this inherent, powerful ability to create instant attraction, and my skills astounded my friends, and word soon spread.

I encouraged guys to approach girls from the off-set, and could talk about seduction theory and philosophy for hours on end. I was invited to join the team of the original ‘Yahoo Group’ ‘New Scotland Lair’ (later known as the Scotland Lair). www.scotlandlair.co.uk/lifestyle is the latest version which was conceived by Staff, my friend and mentor who helped me launch the Professional Players Club.

As the forum developed and matured into the Scotland Lair, along with the increased activity and membership, so did my skills, reputation and relationships with my fellow seduction artists.

I organised lair lunches, weekly approach sessions, day seduction several times a week, one on one chats with other members, and I finally brought over a London seduction guru called James DeMarco, along with the world’s current number three pickup artist, AFCAdamLondon to Scotland as part of the ‘School of Seduction’ bootcamp, so that my community could benefit from the experience of top London seduction experts.

I had girls flying from as far away as Surrey and Barcelona, just to sleep with me. OK so what if they were air hostesses?

The big moment came when I was voted ‘Scotland’s Number 1 pickup artist’ by a narrow margin. Was this a blessing or a curse? I don’t know. Maybe I’ll find out in 10 years time. It was very close, and it could have gone either way. The guy who came second, soon left the community and settled down with a girl. The guy who came third emigrated to Australia.

This changed my life within the community. I remember once entering the ‘Mezzanine’ room of a local nightclub with a girl, where 20 PUAs were drinking, and immediately, I was surrounded by guys wanting to shake my hand, and ask me a barrage of questions. I distinctly remember being asked the best way to ‘create rapport’ and ‘where did you get that girl from, and how?’.

Some reviews I got from former students:

Before I met IceDragon, I was just out a 4-year relationship and felt insecure and sometimes unattractive. After meeting him and getting advice from him, I got more dates than I could handle. - Gordon, Clydebank

IceDragon knows it all . . . his knowledge is amazing. IceDragon has vast experience of trying this stuff out in the field, which is very rare. As we all know there are a lot of people talking about gaming but at the end of the day not doing much, Ice seems to be out there all the time really living what he reads and learns. - James, Glasgow

I went out one day with IceDragon down town . . . we ended up number closing two hot girls over on vacation in a Costa coffee shop! Name a set and he’ll approach it. He’s also a total expert in attraction theory. - Alan, Glasgow

IceDragon, we are proud of you dude. - Abhishek, New Delhi

I have seen IceDragon in field many times and spoken to him at great length about theories etc. Don’t miss the opportunity of learning from him. - Mark, Glasgow

Guys, you will have a lot of fun with IceDragon! - Leo, Beijing

Proactivity - work, work, work, work, work and . . . work - I emailed Mystery Method, enquiring about becoming an instructor, and got a telephone call from a guy called ‘Jeremy’, who said that my ‘CV’ looked impressive, but I had to take a Mystery Method bootcamp before they could consider me’. I replied that it was out of my price range, and that was it. Many months later, I got an email from MM, asking if I was able to help out ‘Tenmagnet’ at a London bootcamp. I jumped at the chance. I spent the next month, studying the entire Mystery Method in depth, and going out every night, working on my MM skills. My journal about my Mystery Method experiences will be available on this blog, very soon.

I was invited to another Mystery Method bootcamp, by Sheriff. It was another amazing weekend, where I left with a lot of experience, and made friends with more top guys in the seduction community.

I had a great time working with Tenmagnet, Cajun and Masters, so I was feeling buoyed. I was bitten by the teaching bug, so I arranged Scotland’s first SUPER SEMINAR, inviting top PUAs from London, Dublin and Holland. Matthew from Holland, DeepVertigo from Dublin and Gem from London turned up.

Seeing how successful our seminar was, the Central England Lair in Birmingham decided to host their own ‘Birmingham Super Seminar’, and invited me to speak. I went down, and while I was down there, Craze and Gem from ‘Alpha Interactions’ officially offered me the position of instructor. We had talked about it by telephone prior to the Birmingham seminar, but it was cemented in Birmingham.

Since then, I travelled down to London for an Alpha Interactions Instructors Training Course, and last month, I taught at my first ever bootcamp in Glasgow.

www.alphainteractions.com

Alpha Interactions have described me as A cool calm and sophisticated member of the Alpha interactions team, it is no accident that Icedragon has been making waves and gaining widespread notoriety in the UK ‘Seduction Community’.

A warm and friendly mentor, Icedragon’s down to earth, non pretentious nature rarely fails to endear him to students. Icedragon will go out of his way to accommodate all and ensure optimum learning conditions regardless of your personal challenges. Icedragon is a solid rock of support for anyone feeling overwhelmed by the dating jungle.

So, that’s my story.

Lets work on developing your story, bring out your true potential, and make you the best seducer and man you can be.

IceDragon

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Dating Ladies may not be enough for those guys who want to date strippers!

Here are some quick fire tips from my friend and mentor, Craze, Director of Alpha Interactions.

I have witnessed him scoring with hot strippers, before my eyes. His tips will bring you success in Stripper Game.

Enjoy!

IceDragon

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1) Always have her open up to you as a real person not her stripper persona. You want to know Melissa not Mercedes.

2) Take away her sexuality in a way that shows you are attracted to her mind and not her body, if she tries to take the conversation to looks, street it away.

3) Do not be an ass, most strippers have spent their whole lives building themselves up on their sexuality and looks, do not say to them you find them unnattractive. If they ask, say, yeah your cute and quickly move on.

4) Don’t be afraid to touch them in a friendly way, you can get away with pull away kino.

5) when they decide to touch you, put your hands on hers and pay no attention to it. If she puts her hand on your knee, place yours on top and talk to your mates for a bit.

6) Only go for a dance with her when you have built a connection and she has earnt it. The dance should be a reward for her, not you.

7) If she gets pushy, tell her that she is cute when she is pushy and play a game with her, I tell you what if you can do this or that then we can go for a dance, but im keeping my shirt on, Im not that kind of stripper.

When you do go for a dance with her, try and keep eye contact, it is ok to grab a quick look at her fanny when she is not looking but you want to make it clear the dance was a way of saying I appreciate you spending time talking with me, she could have made a lot of money from other guys whilst talking to you.

9) Ask her about her life outside of the club, this will help her to disassociate you with “customers”

10) Do not expect to close on the first night, It is very very difficult to get a strong connection with a stripper.

11) Finally DO NOT make her feel like a slut by talking about her body, if she pushes her boobs up against you or similar say “Haha get those things out of my face”

Peace and Love

-Craze

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A Scottish Pickup Artist, Platinum King, wrote this article. Teaches you how to Pickup Girls and bring them back to your hotel room.

IceDragon

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This is a technique which I have used time and time again with consistent success.

In order for it to work, first of all, you need to believe 100% in what you are saying, and have an ultra strong frame, so don’t come moaning to me if it backfires. Work on your own frame and try again till you get it right. Maybe it only works for me, but, I’ll tell you guys about it and you can choose what you want to do.

First of all, you have to have a good connection with the girl, build lots of comfort on the phone, build trust and commonalities.

What I then do is this. I tell the girl that I want to spend some one on one time with her. I tell her that I don’t want to watch a movie for a couple of hours just so that I can spend some time with her, I don’t want to go for a meal, or sit in a bar, with other people, and sit in one place. I don’t have a car, and I don’t have my own place. I don’t want to walk about in the cold streets of whatever town she chooses to meet.

I tell her that I’ll book a hotel room, and we can go there and sit, talk and get to know each other.

Intitially she will not want to go along with the idea, as her ‘anti-slut defence’ comes into play, so you have to be ready, sharp and counter it with lightening fast, kick ass responses.

You say “I’m comfortable with myself, and I can trust myself not to do anything, is it me you don’t trust or is it yourself? Are you scared you’ll be unable to control yourself? You know you’re well enough to know you’re not in the presence of a serial killer or some mad rapist, so it must be yourself you don’t trust?”

She will give you some more shit tests and bullshit. So, you just joke and say something like “Why, don’t you find me attractive, do you think you will be able to control yourself?”

Eventually, if your frame is strong enough, she will crumble and agree to meet you. Women love a man who knows what he wants, and who lives in his own reality. She will want to enter your reality. After all, you’re only going to the hotel room to talk in privacy, and really get to know each other. At the back of her mind she knows the two of you will have sex. Only, under the pretext of talking with no distractions, in a calm, private environment.

Women want sex more that men.

But, it should not be their fault. She must not appear to be a slut, at any cost.

She will appreciate the fact that you think she is special and you want to spend quality time with her alone, without any distractions.

I’ve brought you this far, and if you can’t get a fuck-close out of this situation, it’s your own fault.

p.s. this may only apply if one does not have a motor vehicle to park up and talk in or a residence which he can take her to. Also, it is crucial that you make her aware that if she was being invited to his premises she wouldn’t feel as bad. As we all know, a hotel room has a stigma attached to it. Try to take the ’stigma’ out of the hotel room. The hotel room is a substitute for your own place.

Make yourself believe this. This is vital. Go out and Pickup Girls.

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When building a house, as with dating ladies, it is important to build a foundation first

Every man on this planet has the inherent ability to attract a woman. You do not need complicated structures, techniques, and routines in order to do that. Each and every one of our forefathers was successful in finding a partne. There is no doubt about that. Somewhere along the line, things got mixed up, and men forgot that they were natural seducers, it’s what they do best, like hunting, fighting, drinking, etc. and the woman became the prize. The man is the true prize, and if anyone tells you otherwise, it is going against nature.

Social conditioning tells us not to approach a woman. When we see a beautiful woman, something inside us says that it is not acceptable to society.

The first step you have to take is to tell your inner voice to shut up, and replace it with a new affirmation. Approach her. I don’t care if you use an indirect opinion opener, direct opener, say hello, ask her the time, anything.

This is the first hurdle you must overcome. You must overcome your inner fears and forget about the outcome. Get out of your own head, and face the reality that if you do not approach that girl, she will move on, and some other guy will approach her and start a sexual relationship with her.

The relationship, which should have been yours.

What if your great, great, great grandfather had not approached your great, great, great grandmother? You would not be here, listening to me telling you to approach the woman you desire. I want your great, great, great grandson to enjoy the company and pleasure of beautiful women. You have to make it happen. Live forever, pass on your genes.

Ok, enough about approaching. It’s blatantly obvious that if you don’t approach, you might as well go on the Internet and find a Russian bride who will divorce you as soon as she gets a visa.

Mentally, it is far easier to approach a woman, if you have the lifestyle, which a woman will want to be part of.

Cultivate your passions in life. Choose an interest, which involves investing in you. Out with your working life, you should have something which you enjoy doing, be it playing a sport, collecting rare items, etc.

Take a look at your own life, and list your achievements.

Have lots of female friends in your phonebook. This will help you understand female psychology, and will ultimately help you meet the woman of your dreams.

Accept your weaknesses, and build on your strengths. Each and every single one of us in this room knows what his weakness is, and the chances are, he hides them and feels ashamed. Do not do this. If you are open and come out of the closet about your insecurities, and show the world that you are not bothered by them. Other people will accept you too. Respect yourself and demand respect from others. If they don’t, cut them out of your life. Only keep friends who respect you. This also applies to women. No matter how hot she is, if she doesn’t respect you, this will do you long-term damage, and the number one person in your life is you.

Think about your future. Choose your career wisely and invest in it, if you don’t have one, work towards it. Women are attracted to a successful male who can provide for her and her children. If you are unemployed, on benefits, and live for the weekend, what can you do for your family? I know it’s fashionable to say that you can still get laid if you have ‘game’, but I want you guys to experience long-term success. If you are in a job you don’t like, leave it and get the necessary qualifications you need to find the job of your dreams. Don’t let anyone tell you that you ‘can’t do something’.

I consistently get from women is ‘you know where you want to be in life, and how you’re going to get there’. It’s how you frame yourself and present yourself is what counts.

Stay in shape. Eat healthily, keep junk food to a minimum, and keep your cardiovascular system in great shape. Wear nice clothes, stay clean.

IceDragon

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